Skip to main content

My Brother,My Role Model

My Brother,My Role Model

In the course of life it is not the one man or one moment which inspires to be better and the best but anyone you come across in your life teaches you something valuable. These lessons we learn from them improves our lives and make us better making these men our role model whom we tries to imitate.

When I was a child my families financial condition was not very good. My father suffered a huge loss in his business. One or the other borrower queues daily at our door for their money while we didn't have enough money to afford even food. My father was shattered, it was at that time my mother and brother stood for him. My brother leaved his study and started learning some work. He learned machine embroidery work in only four months for which others took a year or so to learn and then he started his own work with some financial support from my parents who at that time opened a grocery shop.

I was very young at that time but I still remembered that my brother had one embroidery machine at home also in which he sets designs to show to clients to get orders for the same. Sometimes he worked till 2 or 3'o clock in night. He was passionate for his work and wanted to be a manufacturer of men's sherwani and kurta pyjama. It was his dedication and hard work that he became one in just three or four years and launched his own brand "GULMOHUR" which manufactures men's wedding attire. Today he is a successful businessman and I am also working with him.

He is so much dedicated to his work that he considered everything else secondary to it. When he was learning embroidery he remained surrounded by people who smoked,chewed tobacco,drank alcohol,etc but he never developed such habits. Even now when he went for business trips with clients or suppliers he refused their such offers. He always helped others without looking at his own interest, has a soft heart which easily melts listening someone's problem for which he was betrayed several times and is witty the qualities he inherited from his father which I don't found in me. He has enhanced his father's reputation in the society being his representative after his death. He takes good care of our needs. If I started writing about things he had done for me and rest of the family then this post is never going to end.

His perfectionism as a son and a brother makes it difficult for me to achieve his levels. When I grew up, there are already many standards set by him which I have to match. People says that son changed after marriage but he changed for the better becoming more caring for family specially mother. The way he conducts himself as a husband and a father is also setting an example for others. His confidence, hard work, his passion and dedication for his work are those qualities which I wants to own. My brother inspires me to believe in your dreams and gave your hundred percent to make it a reality.

I am writing about #MyRoleModel as a part of the activity by Gillette India in association with


  1. That's really inspiring. In the times of adversity he remained strong, confident and sincerely took all the responsibilty. He is a true example of success. What he dreamed he turned it into real. A responsible person can only play all his roles and manage relations nicely because he cares for everything and everyone. Cifar, I can feel the great respect, love n affection you owe to him. You are lucky to have such a caring brother. My best wishes to both of you and family.


Post a Comment

Popular posts from this blog

Bitter Bread

Bitter Bread
Bread,doubleroti,pao,bun or we call it with any other name; it is the part of our breakfast which completes our daily routine. This ready to eat item is popular with egg and butter but the recent study by Centre For Science and Environment (CSE) have turned this must breakfast eatable bitter. 
CSE conducted test on various samples collected from different part of the capital belonging to different brands. They found 84% samples test positive for potassium bromate and potassium iodate after tests on 38 varieties which include Britannia,Harvest Gold,KFC, McDonalds, Domino's Pizza and Subway. These revelations are shocking and disturbing as all of us have eaten from one of these brands. It should also be noted that these two substances which are used to soften breads and enhance their color and texture namely potassium bromate and potassium iodate are banned in many countries of the world after a study conducted in the 90's. These substances however are not harmful a…

Braid Cutting - Truth or Rumors?

Braid Cutting - Truth or Rumor?

Mysterious braid (choti) cutting incidents has happened in Rajasthan, Haryana and Delhi where women mostly around 50 years of age has their braids cut without their knowledge by some invisible source causing fear among women in these areas. Women also fell unconscious during the time of braid cutting which left them clueless about the attacker and made the incident mysterious. Police who have recorded the statements of victims deny any black magic involved in this which is rumored in the video circulated in social media groups. They are asserting that some miscreants are behind the incident.
The video allegedly claims that a woman is on a mission to cut 1008 women braids in order to get invisibility power according to a black magic ritual. I heard this news around a month ago from someone whose relatives live in Rajasthan. The incident was not in news at that time, I denied him saying that these are rumors or acts of miscreants and I still believe miscr…

Naive Traveler : City of Nawabs - Lucknow

Naive Traveler : City of Nawabs - Lucknow

Lucknow is known as The City of Nawabs the royal ruler of the city which gave it culinary & cultural identity like the way of talking I noticed while interacting with the people. The place is beautiful and has many things which can attract tourists to visit this city but I don’t find it tourist friendly as I observed in the other cities I visited like Agra,Jaipur, Dehradun,etc. As we came out of the station, there were no tourist autos or taxis available for city sightseeing thus left you unaware of what to do.
If we haven’t researched about the places and things to eat we couldn’t explore the city the way we did.

With our knowledge of places to visit and to eat, we first hire a bus bust to the Chowk area where we found Rahim’s Hotel for famous RAHIM KI NIHARI-KULCHA. Nihari is a breakfast non-vegetarian dish available in both Buffalo & Goat meat. Its taste was totally different from what I have tested it in Delhi and the Kulcha was he…